I know it’s been a long time since I’ve written. I’m making up for that starting now. But I need to tell y’all that I made it. I’m home. Not quite as cleanly as I’d like it, but I’m home nonetheless! We came home on August 15th. It’s been amazing… an adventure… a labyrinth of new things to maneuver through. The move was miserable. The cleaning out, the purging, the letting go of useless stuff was wonderful! But the move itself was painful. We will never again use Bekins to move (if we ever do again), nor will I ever recommend that company as the one to trust with your personal things. Things were broken, misplaced, poorly organized… that along with the unprofessional attitudes of some of the men who moved us had this be an experience that I trudged forward as opposed to feeling supported through.
Being home is something I haven’t felt in a long time. I remarked to Dan how I realized after being here for a little while that I hadn’t felt the feeling of being home at all in the big house in Rockford. It was a beautiful house! But I noticed that I would pace the floor over and over. I was restless in that house. It was always cold inside, even during the summertime! The feeling of being at home is so unmistakable that it has me quite at a loss as to how I could’ve missed that feeling. I’ve been homeless (in a sense) for 16 years! I learned so much from my excursion up north. I made some friends that I know will be friends for life! I discovered that Weight Watchers actually works and that I really do love the work I do for them. I learned that I can do whatever I set my mind to. I know that if something needs to be done, I will find a way. We are at the end of 2017 and I said to myself and to all of you 2 1/2 years ago that I was coming home. This was after Dad had passed and I realized that I wanted to get home to be with Jen and the rest of my family. For 2 years I spoke it. I lived as though we were moving home. And then the V.A. job opened up for Dan. It took about 9 months of his prodding them and checking to make sure that they knew he was still alive and on this planet, but they gave him the job and we came home 4 months ago! I am singing with Eric and Sandra again! I am working for Weight Watchers here in my hometown and I love it! Thanksgiving was wonderful! Jen and the kids were here and the meal was so very special! Turkey with Maw Maw’s dressing, spinach with sour cream, sweet potatoes with marshmallows, mashed potatoes, broccoli, rolls, pecan pie, pumpkin cheesecake, and pumpkin pie! It was miraculous! And Jen and I did it together.
So Christmas will be here in a couple of weeks. It’s time to really look at 2018. What am I going to speak into action next year? It appears that I am more powerful than I thought I was a couple of years ago. All it takes is throwing your hat over the wall…